Being ok or not - it’s ok

Sometimes it won't be ok and it's ok to not be ok.

Sometimes people won't want to listen or understand and sometimes as harsh as it is, people will simply not really care.

The thing we need to remember is that becoming bitter doesn't help us and that most of the time we are our own constant.

We can pull ourselves out of the biggest mess with God's help or whatever faith you hold onto. If you don't have a faith you hold onto, I hope you believe in yourself enough to give you strength.

In difficult times it's not about our maybe well intentioned advice on what people should or shouldn't do but rather doing or maybe saying something to let them know they aren't alone and someone cares.

With that said it’s much like dance class, our teacher can correct us however gentle, we can have time set aside to specifically work on what exercise we are struggling with but ultimately we need to stop, take a breath and stop beating ourselves up. We need to remember like the struggling dancer in front of the mirror, holding onto that barre for dear life, that sometimes we are all that truly understand what's going on and in that moment (however long) we are the only ones who can help us. I guess in a sense it's about letting yourself be vulnerable to yourself. 

Also as I said fellow dancer and dance lover I hope what you believe in most pulls you through, because the dark lasts only temporarily and eventually you will finally work out how to do that ‘exercise’ you have struggled so much with. This too shall pass and may the strength dance teaches us and the inspiration we surround ourselves with pull you through.

If you need a listening ear please share by blog post or for more confidential matters by email on: dancegrace2@gmail.com

Part of inspiring others is being there in the difficult times as well.

Love to all xx